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Placing a child for adoption is filled with questions and fears. Birthmothers offer insight.

Continue reading Placing a Child for Adoption: Fear

This is a great article to let adoptive parents know that these birthmothers are people just like us. They are concerned over making this decision. It is not a decision that they make lightly to allow their child to be adopted. Birthmothers worry over their children - they don't forget them. It is a decision that they think about every day of their lives. Wondering if their child is okay. Healthy. Safe. Fear is a natural emotion for them to feel, but it should not be downplayed. They should be supported and loved by those they are closest to.

I think birthmothers should raise there children instead of someone else doing it instead they worry how they look they need to worry about there child I think in adoption people focus more on them selves rather than the adopted child or infant

i think in adoption people need to worry more about the adopted child or infant rather than themselves I think in adoption people dont act like they care much how the adopted child or infant will feel about being adopted the people in adoption should be more worried about how the child will feel rather than the birthmom or adoptive parent

I think people need to ask adopted people how they feel about being adopted thats more important than how the birthmom or adopted mom feels