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I am the mother of two beautiful children boy 5 girl 1 they are healthy and living well off. my husbands brother and his wife can no longer have children due to complications with thier first child. they wanted our son from the start and I had told them no and they laid off, with our second child they would call every other week "checking up on me to see how the pregnancy was going" I told them in the begining that this one would not be givin to them, three months after we had her they were really egging it on, I remember feeling really pressured by these people who are relatives to my husband, I never even met them yet. I told them at the time that maybe if I got pregnant again and if they where there for the birth then I might think about it. Well here we are not even 10 weeks pregnant and his family is hounding us to give the Baby to his brother. He was talking to his mom on the phone and while talking to her abut it his body language was telling me that he was not up for this again. however he never once told his mother no. I feel for his brother in my heart and would love to be able to that for someone, but this was a planned pregnancy and to have his family wanting a part of us that we planned as a family for is just really hard!!!!