The Colorado bill has opened up both old and new arguments.
Those supporting the bill have said:
Most young girls are afraid to go in front of a judge and answer questions about the baby's father, so waiving a hearing would take away this fear.
It will allow adopting and placing parents to connect earlier in the process and form a bond.
Once the decision to relinquish is made, it's made, whenever that happens, even pre-birth.
All other states have similar bills.
The mother can change her mind up to 72 hours after the child is born.
If we support choice, a woman should be able to commit to abortion or adoption as early as possible.
Those opposing the bill have said:
Every woman deserves a hearing.
It is a subtle form of coercion for placing parents and can give false hope to adopting parents.
In the first few months of pregnancy, a woman may be in denial; in the next few months, counseling is important, and after birth, there may be a total about-face.
All other states do not have similar bills.
72 hours after giving birth isn't enough time to make any major decision, let alone try to beat an agency or adoption attorney to court to withdraw the affidavit.
Abortion and adoption are not two sides of the same coin.
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