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Issues - Adoption Language - Library of features, columns, and specials about adoption language

Insight into and information about the words and terms used in connection to adoption and adoptive families.

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10 Ways to Talk to Kids About Race, Culture & Adoption
The increase in multicultural and multiracial families in recent years is no surprise to the adoption community, and Deb Capone, of children's book publisher As Simple As That, has suggestions to help parents and teachers answer kids' questions.

A Few Words on Words in Adoption
Adoption educator Brenda Romanchik suggests ways to resolve some of the language differences that exist in adoption.

"Adopt-A" Programs
"Adopt-A" programs and promotions can send the wrong messages to our kids, and they're all over the Web, in schools, and in our communities.

Adoption-Friendly Language or Honest Adoption Language
Adoption language is a sensitive topic, and Sandra Falconer Pace of the Canadian Council of Natural Mothers explores two separate movements - both targeted toward respect: 'positive' or 'friendly' language and 'honest' language.

Annoying Things People Say
What annoys us? Here are some of the most commonly heard insulting, inappropriate, and irritating comments, contributed by members of all segments of the adoption community.

Being Adopted
For many adoptees, being adopted means intrusive or insensitive questions and comments. In the second article of her series, therapist, author, and adoptee Marlou Russell, Ph.D., gives parents and adoptees tools they can use to respond.

Chat Lingo
Terms and abbreviations commonly used in Internet chat rooms.

Forever Families
Therapist, author, and adoptee Marlou Russell, Ph.D., explains why telling an adoptee that s/he is now in a "forever family" can sound more reassuring to the adoptive parent than to the adoptee, and offers alternatives.

Kids Talk... About Adoption
Adopted kids, and children of adoptees and birth parents give their unique views. 'Out of the mouths of babes...'

Politically Correct Adoption Language
Are you PC? Do you care? Decide for yourself if new language surrounding adoption helps or hurts our ability to communicate.

Replacing "Adoption"
Is "adoption" still the most descriptive word for the way our families are created? our Editor's opinion.

Slinging The Adoption Lingo
Adoption and foster care abbreviations and acronyms got you down? We've got some help to get you through the mire.

Talking to Kids About Adoption
Adoption educator Ronny Diamond, MSW, answered questions from adoptive parents about how and when to talk to their children about adoption. From kids too young to understand to the "you're not my parent" comment, we covered it all!

Telling the Teachers: Adoption & School
At the start of the school year, parents debate whether or not to tell teachers that their children joined their families through adoption. Here are resources and opinions to help make your decision.


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