Grief, Loss, Shame & Guilt

Acknowledging grief over the loss of a child through adoption, and dealing with feelings of shame and guilt are important steps for parents who placed voluntarily and for those who did not. Find information and resources from parents and professionals.

Shame

Shame over events surrounding relinquishment or involuntary loss of parental rights can be paralyzing, preventing not only reunion and honesty within families, but also personal peace. Read one woman's story and her suggestions for others.

Adoption and Loss - The Hidden Grief
From a presentation in Toronto, Evelyn Robinson, author of the book by the same name, explores the grief attached to losing a child through adoption and the many issues that encompasses.

Birth Parent Grief
Recognizing the grief of loss is the first step on the road to healing. Recommended reading for all triad members.

Lifelong Issues
Seven issues affecting all members of the adoption experience.

No More Guilt, No More Grief
A birthmother writes eloquently about surviving the closed adoption system.

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